MARITAL LIFE: SINGLE BUT NOT ALONE by Awotiku Akinlayo David

GODS PUROSEFUL YOUTH (G.P.M.) ONLINE TEACHING
MARITAL LIFE: SINGLE BUT NOT ALONE
Let's pray!
Our father we bless u for yet another opportunity to learn again. We trust u to take good care of our marital life for us and teach us d secret of a good relationship in our early stage of marital. Lord we trust u tonight. In Jesus name we have prayed.
Tonight's topic is just a foundation of what we will build on later and its called Youth being single but not alone
First we are starting with d differences between Single and alone.
Single simply means not married!
Alone is by one's self, when u do things on ur own
Now here is one question for u
If u happen to be give chance to marry yourself, can u proudly marry you?
I mean with all the defects and imperfection or dirtiness or indiscipline. Will u still be proud to marry yourself?
Selah
What I'm saying in essence is this "prepare and discipline yourself so that u can be proud enough to say ur partner is lucky to have u"
I have heard people saying I want someone who will love me d way I am, but yet at 25years, u can't cook, wash plate, wash clothes and even u are not industrious.
And u want a guy that will love u d way u are,
Sister who are u?
You don't need to be married to fulfill God's purpose for your life.
U start fulfilling ur purpose RIGHT NOW
Most of us are waiting to get married before start fulfilling purpose. It is unscriptural
Most of d people that were fulfilling God's purpose were not married when they started, they were all SINGLE.
Even Peter that was married do things as though he was not married, thank God bible talked about Peter's in-law, if not we would have think he was not married
Let's check d bible
Genesis 2:18 – ‘And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be ALONE; I will make him an help meet for him. And out of the ground the Lord God formed every beast of the field, and every fowl of the air; and brought them unto Adam to see what he would call them: and whatsoever Adam called every living creature, that was the name thereof. And Adam gave names to all cattle, and to the fowl of the air, and to every beast of the field; but for Adam there was not found an help meet for him.
U can see here that Adam was fulfilling his purpose before God saw that he was alone.
He was doing everything on his own
So God made an help meet for him
It is very important to know that u are in the world today to fulfill God's purpose.
And u must start it from now that u are still single.
It is now that u don't have any responsibility of partner or children to take care of, u must be able to define and actualize ur purpose right now.
Marriage is not a purpose to fulfill, it is just a vision that will aid d fulfilment of ur purpose
As a matter of fact, Paul was never married.
Kathryn Kulmhan was not married as well till he died in d 19th century
Yet these people did great exploit for Christ.
They impacted their generation and d generation passed it on to us.
Benny Hinn learnt more of d scriptures realities from her.
So singleness time is not a time to be anxious of getting married, its a time to start fulfilling purpose
Its a time to affect d world vigorously with everything u av,
It is a time to use and maximize ur strength before you are old
It is not a time to waste at all, it is not a time to start finding boyfriends or girlfriends, its not even a time to listen to how to toast a lady or how to think before accepting a proposal
U can't be anxious of marriage and yet be fully committed to ur purpose.
Anxiety for dating or looking for who to be in relationship with is a great distraction into fulfilling purpose
U cant say u want to marry because you are lonely
It is when God sees u that u are alone then he finds ur help meet for u
Lemme tell u a fact:
If u are not ready for marriage in d next 5years then u should not be in any relationship now. Selah!
There is difference between being alone and being lonely
Alone: u are doing something but on ur own, it can be stressful, tiring and sometimes annoying but yet u still continue doing it.
Lonely: its when u don't have anything to do, u just sit down always, sleeping and eating. No bearing, no ambition to possess. No purpose to attain.
Lemme clear this that marriage does not solve loneliness, it only exposes it. Selah!
Loneliness starts from laziness.
U must think well ooooo
My fellow boos and baes in Christ
I'm telling u categorically now that the more u develop urself d more of a blessing u be to someone
D more value u add to urself d more value u bring to someone else life.
Take note: MARRIAGE IS NOT A REQUIREMENT, ITS A CHOICE.
So d question remains How prepared are you for marriage?
One thing u should also know is this before I round up for tonight
Don't make close friend with people (especially opposite partner) outside ur purpose.
Infact Lemme address this instead, don't make close friend with a purposeless person, or else they will make ur purpose hell for u
I wonder how a Christian lady could say she's dating an unbeliever saying she wants to change him
Sorry oooo Mrs Changer, who send u? Na ur work?
Who gave u d appointment letter of changing guys?
U should not date someone who seems to take God for granted, he does not go to church, has never talked about d scripture with u, he has never prayed with u, neither did he cared about ur spiritual life yet u say he is gentle and nice.
Ahhhhhhhh my sister
If u are currently in such relationship
U remember d advertisement of Mortein? Where d mosquitos says 'MORTEIN! RUN FOR YOUR LIFE'
Im telling u again 'Death, FLEE FOR YOUR LIFE!
Not even run but flee
Ur single life is very important to me because I love u and I don't want u to waste your time with ur single life.
Make good use of ur single life
U are alone yet u are not because d holy spirit is with u and he will inform u clearly when it is time for u to get married
Anyone that does not know God can never love u because God is Love
Anyone that does not love God can NEVER love u rightly
Anyone that does not respect God will disrespect u.
Therefore take heed and be careful who to be closer to, move closer to someone who has a vision attached to his/her purpose
My brothers and sisters Lemme be Frank
If u av not discover your purpose this time around, u are not fit to start dating talkless of being in a relationship
So I'm not talking about unbelievers alone
A believer who has not discover his/her purpose is not fit or qualified to propose or accept a proposal.
Because marriage was designed to perfect purpose so you need to check if ur purpose is in line with d person u are proposing to or who is proposing to u as d case may be.
I wonder something sha among youth of nowadays
YOU WANT MARRIAGE WHEN GOD IS STILL MANAGING U!
Habbaaaa!!!
I just trust God to help us
Lemme stop here for now
I hope we are blessed
Let's pray:
God we thank u for your love for us, that u for exposing us to d truth about marriage and y we need to make a good use of our single life. We trust u to help us understand more in Jesus name. Guide us oh God to follow ur wills in Jesus name. And teach us to be careful not to fall into anxiety of getting married or being in relationship in Jesus name. For in Jesus name we have prayed. AMENNNNNN

King_Hosanna cares
From Awotiku Akinlayo David
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