MARITAL LIFE: SINGLE BUT NOT ALONE by Awotiku Akinlayo David
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MARITAL LIFE: SINGLE BUT NOT ALONE
Let's pray!
Our father we bless u for
yet another opportunity to learn again. We trust u to take good care of our
marital life for us and teach us d secret of a good relationship in our early
stage of marital. Lord we trust u tonight. In Jesus name we have prayed.
Tonight's topic is just
a foundation of what we will build on later and its called Youth being single
but not alone
First we are starting
with d differences between Single and alone.
Single simply means not
married!
Alone is by one's self,
when u do things on ur own
Now here is one question
for u
If u happen to be give
chance to marry yourself, can u proudly marry you?
I mean with all the defects
and imperfection or dirtiness or indiscipline. Will u still be proud to marry
yourself?
Selah
What I'm saying in essence is this "prepare and discipline
yourself so that u can be proud enough to say ur partner is lucky to have
u"
I have heard people
saying I want someone who will love me d way I am, but yet at 25years, u can't
cook, wash plate, wash clothes and even u are not industrious.
And u want a guy that
will love u d way u are,
Sister who are u?
You don't need to be married to fulfill God's purpose for your life.
U start fulfilling ur purpose RIGHT NOW
Most of us are waiting to get married before start fulfilling
purpose. It is unscriptural
Most of d people that were fulfilling God's purpose were not married
when they started, they were all SINGLE.
Even Peter that was
married do things as though he was not married, thank God bible talked about
Peter's in-law, if not we would have think he was not married
Let's check d bible
Genesis 2:18 – ‘And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man
should be ALONE; I will make him an help meet for him. And out of the ground
the Lord God formed every beast of the field, and every fowl of the air; and
brought them unto Adam to see what he would call them: and whatsoever Adam
called every living creature, that was the name thereof. And Adam gave names to
all cattle, and to the fowl of the air, and to every beast of the field; but
for Adam there was not found an help meet for him.
U can see here that Adam
was fulfilling his purpose before God saw that he was alone.
He was doing everything
on his own
So God made an help meet
for him
It is very important to
know that u are in the world today to fulfill God's purpose.
And u must start it from
now that u are still single.
It is now that u don't
have any responsibility of partner or children to take care of, u must be able
to define and actualize ur purpose right now.
Marriage is not a purpose to fulfill, it is just a vision that will
aid d fulfilment of ur purpose
As a matter of fact, Paul was never married.
Kathryn Kulmhan was not married as well till he died in d 19th
century
Yet these people did great exploit for Christ.
They impacted their generation and d generation passed it on to us.
Benny Hinn learnt more of d scriptures realities from her.
So singleness time is not a time to be anxious of getting married,
its a time to start fulfilling purpose
Its a time to affect d world vigorously with everything u av,
It is a time to use and maximize ur strength before you are old
It is not a time to
waste at all, it is not a time to start finding boyfriends or girlfriends, its
not even a time to listen to how to toast a lady or how to think before
accepting a proposal
U can't be anxious of marriage and yet be fully committed to ur
purpose.
Anxiety for dating or
looking for who to be in relationship with is a great distraction into
fulfilling purpose
U cant say u want to
marry because you are lonely
It is when God sees u
that u are alone then he finds ur help meet for u
Lemme tell u a fact:
If u are not ready for marriage in d next 5years then u should not be
in any relationship now. Selah!
There is difference
between being alone and being lonely
Alone: u are doing something but on ur own, it can be stressful,
tiring and sometimes annoying but yet u still continue doing it.
Lonely: its when u don't have anything to do, u just sit down
always, sleeping and eating. No bearing, no ambition to possess. No purpose to
attain.
Lemme clear this that marriage does not solve loneliness, it only
exposes it. Selah!
Loneliness starts from laziness.
U must think well ooooo
My fellow boos and baes
in Christ
I'm telling u
categorically now that the more u develop urself d more of a blessing u be to
someone
D more value u add to
urself d more value u bring to someone else life.
Take note: MARRIAGE IS
NOT A REQUIREMENT, ITS A CHOICE.
So d question remains How prepared are you for marriage?
One thing u should also
know is this before I round up for tonight
Don't make close friend
with people (especially opposite partner) outside ur purpose.
Infact Lemme address
this instead, don't make close friend with a purposeless person, or else they
will make ur purpose hell for u
I wonder how a Christian lady could say she's dating an unbeliever
saying she wants to change him
Sorry oooo Mrs Changer, who send u? Na ur work?
Who gave u d appointment letter of changing guys?
U should not date
someone who seems to take God for granted, he does not go to church, has never
talked about d scripture with u, he has never prayed with u, neither did he
cared about ur spiritual life yet u say he is gentle and nice.
Ahhhhhhhh my sister
If u are currently in
such relationship
U remember d advertisement of Mortein? Where d mosquitos says
'MORTEIN! RUN FOR YOUR LIFE'
Im telling u again 'Death,
FLEE FOR YOUR LIFE!
Not even run but flee
Ur single life is very
important to me because I love u and I don't want u to waste your time with ur
single life.
Make good use of ur
single life
U are alone yet u are
not because d holy spirit is with u and he will inform u clearly when it is
time for u to get married
Anyone that does not know God can never love u because God is Love
Anyone that does not love God can NEVER love u rightly
Anyone that does not respect God will disrespect u.
Therefore take heed and
be careful who to be closer to, move closer to someone who has a vision
attached to his/her purpose
My brothers and sisters
Lemme be Frank
If u av not discover your purpose this time around, u are not fit to
start dating talkless of being in a relationship
So I'm not talking about
unbelievers alone
A believer who has not discover his/her purpose is not fit or
qualified to propose or accept a proposal.
Because marriage was
designed to perfect purpose so you need to check if ur purpose is in line with
d person u are proposing to or who is proposing to u as d case may be.
I wonder something sha
among youth of nowadays
YOU WANT MARRIAGE WHEN GOD IS STILL MANAGING U!
Habbaaaa!!!
I just trust God to help
us
Lemme stop here for now
I hope we are blessed
Let's pray:
God we thank u for your
love for us, that u for exposing us to d truth about marriage and y we need to
make a good use of our single life. We trust u to help us understand more in
Jesus name. Guide us oh God to follow ur wills in Jesus name. And teach us to
be careful not to fall into anxiety of getting married or being in relationship
in Jesus name. For in Jesus name we have prayed. AMENNNNNN
King_Hosanna
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From Awotiku
Akinlayo David
G.P.Y. ADMIN
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